what it means to be submissive today


One of my followers suggested I write about what submission means to me.

In my conversations with members of fetlife and in doing research online, plus being in tune with my own desires I have learned submission means many things to many people.

For some it’s purely sexual, for others it encompasses Total Power Exchange, which both scares and thrills me.

The same way I believe sexuality to be fluid so is my desire into the BDSM world. I can honestly say I feel my kinky desires every day. But is it all day every day? No. For me there has to be a balance, I desire the vanilla side just as much as the kinky side.

So what does that mean for my submission? Am I not truly submissive if I still believe I can sometimes take control? It depends on what type of control it is.

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